What’s the secret to disciplining children without losing your sanity? The mummy authors of a local parenting book share what works for them.
If you’ve been at the mercy of your child’s embarrassing tantrums in public, mothers Jasmine Han and Shelly Holly understand perfectly what it’s like. In their book, I’m Not Perfect. I’m A Mom, they take a funny and reassuring look at how to be a great mother, even if you’re not perfect (and that’s most of us, right?).
Is “timeout” or the “naughty stool” a good way to help my child reflect, so they learn from a mistake?
Jasmine: Honestly, I’m not sure. Timeouts work best on very young kids, like toddlers, as they do not like being away from their parents.
Can a kid that young ‘re ect’ on bad behaviour during a timeout? Possibly not. But it does offer parent and child a quiet moment to calm down, and that helps.
Your timeout location should be a quiet, boring, safe place. Place the ‘naughty stool’ there. Issue a minute of timeout for each year of age, so a three-year-old gets three minutes of timeout.
It’s embarrassing to discipline my child in public. Are there any tips?
This story is from the May 2017 edition of Young Parents Singapore.
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