Fantasy Friends
New York magazine|June 06 - 19, 2022
The guys of my generation are hooked on fantasy sports. When it comes to maintaining meaningful relationships into adulthood, that might not be a bad thing.
By Zak Cheney-Rice
Fantasy Friends

LAST SUMMER, I reached a grudging conclusion about myself: I’d been playing fantasy sports for too long. It had been 12 years since I’d married my love of NBA basketball to a fixation on stats and petty feuds with my friends, which seemed charmingly zany at age 22 but was getting to be exhausting by 34. My enthusiasm had started to wane a few Octobers earlier, between catching my orcish reflection after staying up until 2 a.m. to draft and collapsing into bed to wait for my toddler’s screams to wake me up. The high jinks depicted in The League, FX’s sitcom about fantasy football, used to spark amused recognition. Now they were a warning that my pastime was becoming neurotic.

Somewhere in the course of this realization, I met Martin. He was a drummer from the Bay Area who’d relocated to Los Angeles, my hometown, and had been invited to join my fantasy basketball league by our mutual friend, Jonathan. Jonathan is the league’s commissioner—alternately a benevolent steward who settles disputes and builds consensus around new rules and a menace to my inbox who triumphantly signs emails with “2016 League Champion.” It was a special occasion: the league’s draft, in which we choose players for the upcoming season. The pomp that goes into this yearly event is embarrassing to admit. I remember trying to imagine how it must have looked to Martin, the only first-timer, and couldn’t avoid the takeaway that we were all unhinged, including him for sticking around.

This story is from the June 06 - 19, 2022 edition of New York magazine.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.

This story is from the June 06 - 19, 2022 edition of New York magazine.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.

MORE STORIES FROM NEW YORK MAGAZINEView All
THE BEST ART SHOWS OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST ART SHOWS OF THE YEAR

IN NOVEMBER, Sotheby's made history when it sold for a million bucks a painting made by artificial intelligence. Ai-Da, \"the first humanoid robot artist to have an artwork auctioned by a major auction house,\" created a portrait of Alan Turing that resembles nothing more than a bad Francis Bacon rip-off. Still, the auction house described the sale as \"a new frontier in the global art market.\"

time-read
2 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BIGGEST PODCAST MOMENTS OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BIGGEST PODCAST MOMENTS OF THE YEAR

A STRANGE THING happened with podcasts in 2024: The industry was repeatedly thrust into the spotlight owing to a preponderance of head-turning events and a presidential-election cycle that radically foregrounded the medium's consequential nature. To reflect this, we've carved out a list of ten big moments from the year as refracted through podcasting.

time-read
2 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR

THE YEAR IN CULTURE - BEST BOOKS

time-read
3 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST THEATER OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST THEATER OF THE YEAR

IT'S BEEN a year of successful straight plays, even measured by a metric at which they usually do poorly: ticket sales. Partially that's owed to Hollywood stars: Jeremy Strong, Jim Parsons, Rachel Zegler, Rachel McAdams (to my mind, the most compelling).

time-read
4 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST ALBUMS OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST ALBUMS OF THE YEAR

2024 WAS one big stress test that presented artists with a choice: Face uncomfortable realities or serve distractions to the audience. Pop music turned inward while hip-hop weathered court cases and incalculable losses. Country struggled to reconcile conservative interests with a much wider base of artists. But the year's best music offered a reprieve.

time-read
3 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST TELEVISION OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST TELEVISION OF THE YEAR

IT WAS SURPRISING how much 2024 felt like an uneventful wake for the Peak TV era. There was still great television, but there was much more mid or meh television and far fewer moments when a critical mass of viewers seemed equally excited about the same series.

time-read
5 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST COMEDY SPECIALS OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST COMEDY SPECIALS OF THE YEAR

THE YEAR IN CULTURE - COMEDY SPECIALS

time-read
3 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
THE BEST MOVIES OF THE YEAR
New York magazine

THE BEST MOVIES OF THE YEAR

PEOPLE LOVED Megalopolis, hated it, puzzled over it, clipped it into memes, and tried to astroturf it into a camp classic, but, most important, they cared about it even though it featured none of the qualities you'd expect of a breakthrough work in these noisy times.

time-read
7 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
A Truly Great Time
New York magazine

A Truly Great Time

This was the year our city's new restaurants loosened up.

time-read
10+ mins  |
December 16-29, 2024
The Art of the Well-Stuffed Stocking
New York magazine

The Art of the Well-Stuffed Stocking

THE CHRISTMAS ENTHUSIASTS on the Strategist team gathered to discuss the oversize socks they drape on their couches and what they put inside them.

time-read
3 mins  |
December 16-29, 2024