Somebody once said, 'It is nice to be important, but it is more important to be nice. If you are a good-natured and helpful person there is a strong possibility that people will start taking you for granted. Or people can start misusing your good nature. Sooner or later you will become a doormat or a scapegoat, unable to refuse, fight back or say no to anyone. Nevertheless a time will definitely come when you have to make a tough stand, say no or fight alone. Fighting alone becomes inevitable, especially when you are being harassed, intimidated, bullied or ostracized. Irrespective of the number of friends and colleagues you may have in the workplace nobody will come to your rescue when you are down.
Your friends may pity, sympathize and give you some tips, but will not be able to do anything beyond that. Besides most of them will only give you useless or painful tips like asking you to lookout for a new job elsewhere. But running away is not always the solution.
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