How To Be Young And In Charge
Cosmopolitan - South Africa|Jan/Feb 2019

As cray-town as it may seem, in the not-too-distant future, you could find yourself being the boss. In fact, according to a recent CareerBuilder survey, 38% of workers already report to someone younger than themselves, up from 34% in 2012. But just because you’re more likely to become the HBIC of your peers or elders, that doesn’t mean you can shortcut the skills needed to oversee a team. and when being at the top is totally new, you might be afraid to ask for help, says Linda a HILL, a harvard Business School professor and the author of Becoming A Manager. here are some tips on how to prep for that climb up the career ladder or to kick even more butt if you’ve already hopped up.

Dayna Evans
How To Be Young And In Charge

Set boundaries

You know those gossip sessions you and your co-workers have about the buff guy on the second floor? Yeah, those days are over. When you’re the boss, your relationships with colleagues need to shift just a bit. ‘Create parameters by trying not to hang out with your staff outside work,’ says Ali Kriegsman, co-founder and COO of retail start-up Bulletin (she became a boss for the first time at age 24). Sure, you might socialise at a company happy hour or a mutual friend’s birthday party, but decide early on that you won’t cross lines. So no getting wasted in front of your team or talking shit. These self-imposed guidelines will set the precedent that you’re a supervisor, not a beer-pong bud.

Model the behaviour you want to see

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