'Do my parents know best?'
The Citizen|December 07, 2024
PSYCHOLOGIST EXPLAINS: WHY KIDS SEE MOM AND DAD AS BOSSIER THAN THEY REALLY ARE
'Do my parents know best?'

Curious Kids is a series for children of all ages. If you have a question you'd like an expert to answer, send it to curiouskidsus@theconversation.com.

Why do my parents always act like they know best? - Taliyah, age 12, Gwinnett, Georgia.

Nobody likes getting bossed around, but your parents' bossiness is probably well-intentioned.

As a psychologist who studies family relationships, I can tell you that a parent's No. 1 job is to keep their kids safe.

When a kid becomes a teenager, their world becomes more dangerous. Relationships with friends can become complicated and even toxic.

Drugs and alcohol become more readily available and more tantalizing. Mental health can take a nosedive, and social media doesn't help.

There are a bunch of reasons why these risks increase as you grow up, but peer pressure is mostly to blame. Don't let yourself be misled. Understand issues with help from experts.

This story is from the December 07, 2024 edition of The Citizen.

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