Parenting is a delicate balancing act between guiding your child and allowing them to develop their own sense of independence. Surrounded by the myriad of strategies and theories available, it can feel overwhelming to know what parenting tips or tricks to choose. If in doubt, it’s best to keep things simple. Sometimes that can mean taking advantage of the words you use and one particularly powerful phrase is, “Let me know when you are ready.” This simple statement can have profound effects on a child’s development, helping them grow a healthy sense of independence, whilst reducing conflict at home - and fostering a family dynamic built on trust. Let’s explore why and how this phrase can be such a game-changer in your parenting toolkit.
TAPPING INTO RESPONSIBILITY
Children, much like adults, have an innate desire to feel in control of their lives. By saying, “Let me know when you are ready,” you are empowering kids to take responsibility for their actions and decisions. This approach encourages them to tune into their own needs and readiness, rather than being pushed according to someone else’s timetable.
Consider a scenario where your little one is reluctant to start their homework. Instead of nagging or imposing a strict schedule, saying, “Let me know when you are ready to start your homework, sometime in the next hour” gives them the space to manage their time and feelings. This autonomy can be particularly beneficial as they grow older, training them to develop stronger self-regulation and time management skills.
NO MORE POWER PLAYS
This story is from the June 2024 edition of Mother, Baby & Child.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber ? Sign In
This story is from the June 2024 edition of Mother, Baby & Child.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
SUSTAINABLE FURNITURE FROM ETHNICRAFT
Check out the Belgian brand that's elevating homes in the region with a great ethos of sustainable luxury.
SETTING UP A GREAT HOME OFFICE
Working from home is on the rise, particularly among parents of younger children. How can you make that arrangement work for you?
A SPECIAL SEASONAL STAYCATION!
As the holidays draw near, Rixos Al Mairid Ras Al Khaimah has plenty to offer families looking for an extra special festive season.
A TROPICAL CELEBRATION IN MAURITIUS
For something different this Christmas, here are two incredible tropical resorts that your family will love.
HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD'S TEACHERS
We look at some tips and strategies to help you communicate effectively and confidently with your child’s teachers.
LEARNING TEAMWORK THROUGH OUTDOOR PLAY
This month, the educators at Dibber International Nurseries discuss why playtime outdoors is essential for teaching teamwork to young learners.
UNDERSTANDING MOODY TEENAGERS
Puberty goes hand in hand with mood swings. As a parent, what can you do to help?
FESTIVE FUN FOR FAMILIES
The festive season is a time of joy, togetherness and celebration - the perfect opportunity to try some new activities together as a family.
THE POWER OF SAYING "LET'S TRY..."
Having the right words on hand is a huge part of parenting. This is a phrase that helps everyone feel like they're on the same side.
STRATEGIES FOR DINING OUT WITH YOUNG KIDS
Eating out can be tricky when you have younger children. Here are five things that may help!
