this charming man
Esquire US|Winter 2025
Drew Starkey's performance in the Oscar hopeful Queer has Hollywood buzzing. He's also fashion's latest "it" boy and an incredible dinner companion. What is it about this guy?
this charming man

TWO YEARS AGO, DREW STARKEY was eating breakfast in L. A. with Luca Guadagnino, the Italian director behind Call Me by Your Name and Challengers. Starkey was in disbelief. Guadagnino is an Academy Award nominee who's worked with Tilda Swinton, Timothée Chalamet, and Zendaya. Starkey had spent the past three years on Netflix's Outer Banks-a wildly popular show (now in its fourth season) that bears little resemblance to Guadagnino's moody, hyper-stylized films. But the director had seen the actor's audition tape for an unrelated project and asked him to breakfast.

Shirt ($990) and pants ($2,100) by Loewe; loafers ($842) by J. M. Weston. Opposite: Sweater ($1,820), jeans ($2,060), and boots ($2,440) by Louis Vuitton Men's; sunglasses ($430) by Loewe.

The topic of conversation that morning: Queer, a movie about a gay heroin addict living in Mexico City in the 1950s, based on the William S. Burroughs book of the same name. It was Guadagnino’s next project, and he was eyeing Starkey to star opposite Daniel Craig.

Sweater ($390) by Guess USA; trousers ($1,950) by Valentino; loafers ($1,200) by Prada; necklace ($220) by Noma; bracelet ($11,600) by Tiffany & Co.; Juste un Clou ring ($2,850) by Cartier; signet ring ($300) by Lagos.

“Halfway through the first meeting, I was like, ‘This is amazing, and I don’t really care what comes of it,’ he tells me. “I’m getting to sit down and have deep conversations with a director—an artist—that I really look up to? That’s incredible. The whole time, I was thinking, It’s not gonna happen.

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