As twins, Hayley and I are used to people comparing us. While we're not identical, we still looked similar and growing up, people often mistook us for one another. Yet there were many things that set us apart, too.
I was sensible and academic, whereas Hayley was more outgoing. Like all siblings there were also times when we were competitive with each other, like getting good grades at school, or keeping up with the latest beauty trends.
As we got older, that competitiveness changed into support and we became each other's biggest cheerleaders. Turning 40 was a huge milestone because Hayley and I vowed to make some drastic life changes. It wasn't going to be easy, but we also knew that together, we were unstoppable.
During my teens, I was active and fit. Weight was never an issue for me, and although Hayley wasn't keen on sports, she was naturally slim anyway. After college, I started working as a bank cashier and at 10st and a size 12, I was a healthy weight for my 4ft 11in frame. But I spent hours sitting behind a desk and at break times, enjoyed the array of options in the canteen. It didn't matter if I'd had a bowl of sugary cereal at home, I couldn't resist the temptation of a bacon and hash brown sandwich as a mid-morning snack.
Poor meal choices
When I got a place of my own, aged 21, I also loved the novelty of cooking for myself. Most evenings I rustled up calorie-laden dinners including pasta, pizza, always with a baguette of garlic bread and followed by a bowl of ice cream in front of the TV.
My weight started creeping up, but I was in denial.
Meanwhile, with Hayley studying at Preston University, I tried to visit her every month or so and realised she wasn't gaining weight like me.
Every time I saw her, it only reminded me I didn't look the same. I couldn't help but feel a pang of envy.
This story is from the November 25, 2024 edition of WOMAN - UK.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber ? Sign In
This story is from the November 25, 2024 edition of WOMAN - UK.
Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.
Already a subscriber? Sign In
The dark side to your CHRISTMAS NIGHT OUT
Do you know what’s in your glass this party season?
IS THERE ANYTHING MORE NOSTALGIC THAN CHRISTMASES PAST?
Do you remember the anticipation before the big day, pondering endlessly about what should go on your Christmas list? I would lovingly write two or three things down, pop it into an envelope and leave it by the fireplace to be wafted up the chimney like something out of Mary Poppins.
The Christmas that CHANGED OUR LIVES
We speak to three women about their most wonderful time of year
Fix a festive FALL-OUT
Had too much of a good thing? Our expert tips will help you feel better quickly
Reunited for CHRISTMAS
After his rocky TV comeback, ts Philrelying on wife Steph this holiday season?
'I don't want a THREE DAY HANGOVER'
Lorraine Kelly on how she’ll be spending her first Christmas as a grandma
Mistletoe AND WINE
All Rose wanted was a little extra sparkle at Christmas
Would you spend more ON THE DOG THAN ON YOUR HUSBAND?
Brits are happy to fork out more on their pets’ gifts than on their other half’s, according to a study. We investigate….
A new ACT OF BETRAYAL
King Charles misses Harry 'desperately' but has the trust gone, writes Emily Andrews
PRINCE ANDREW AND FERGIE ARE EXPECTED FOR CHRISTMAS!
After a tough year for William and Kate, the Waleses are looking forward to Christmas and catching up with the Royal Family – including, it seems, Prince Andrew and Sarah, Duchess of York.