Amanda Fenn knew something was wrong when her 10-month-old son Ethan couldn’t sit up by himself. His three older siblings had all been walking by that stage, and Amanda was worried about why he was struggling.
At 11 months, Ethan looked thin – almost ‘fragile’ as Amanda put it – so she took him to see a doctor.
“They sent us to a pediatrician who just said, ‘Each kid develops at their own rate, it’s nothing to worry about, he’ll get there’,” recalls Amanda.
“But being a mum-of-three already I thought, ‘No, something’s not right’. So we decided to get another opinion.”
Despite being brushed aside by a second pediatrician, Amanda knew something was wrong and kept pushing for answers until Ethan was finally admitted to hospital.
A series of blood tests and urine samples revealed a potential problem with his kidneys, but when the diagnosis finally arrived that Ethan had cystinosis, a lack of explanation from the medical staff left Amanda in the dark about what it all meant – until she started doing some research of her own.
SCARY NEW REALITY
“We had to wait two hours [at the hospital] for the script to be made [for Ethan’s medicine] so I Googled it... and that’s when our world fell apart,” says Amanda. “The first thing I saw was, ‘Rare incurable genetic disease. Life expectancy, eight years old.’ I rang my husband at work and he broke down.
“I just held Ethan and said, ‘We’ll get through it together.’”
This story is from the May 25, 2020 edition of Woman’s Day Magazine NZ.
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